Do not seem to care.

 

 

Is a website

 

 

 

 

Come in all shapes and sizes

Not only are they physically different

They are also very different in how they perceive life

Some can even be selfish

If yours is one of these then beware

It is war because a selfish mother will not change without a fight.

If your mother is used to controlling you

 

 

A half truth is a whole lie.

Whatever you might tell yourself.

A lie is a lie.

 

 

 

 

Did you know that the greatest change in classical music in the last fifty years is the introduction of blind auditions?

Probably not.

Since this approach has been introduced the quality of classical music has improved

Why?

Because women are no longer excluded

Because in the audition process they have a fair chance

Hence the best musicians are now being hired

We all gain

Nice that another prejudice bites the dust.

 

 

 

Boots

What do they say?

Someone said they are a bit like SUVs

Strong and inspiring a feeling of safety.

Possibly a feeling of confidence.

How do you look at boots when you buy them?

Is it how do they protect me and keep me warm and dry

Or is it how do I look in them?

What impression do they make?

What colors do they go with?

What do they say about me?

They go with my clothes.

They make me look taller

They are a particular brand.

How about buying them because they fit and are purpose suited?

Ah what purpose?

Notice how many considerations are involved in buying one item of footwear.

Notice how many of these considerations are done without conscious thought.

Now notice how many things in our life are done without thought.

If you bring thought to everything you do then you will have less time to worry.

Worrying endlessly about your life past and future that is.

Being focused helps us to stay in the present and so avoid endless worry.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Seems to be around than ever before.

 

 

 

 

Are for spill and slip

Accidents

Or so we say

Really?

Try noticing what it was you were thinking just before you spilt or slipped.

Invariably you will find some uncharitable or nasty thought.

This is natures way of helping us to learn that nasty thoughts are not cool.

Learn to control those nasty thoughts.

Nasty thoughts are just that nasty.

 

 

Three simple little steps which will change your life.

1 - Locate and look at your fears

2 - Learn to control your mind.

3 - Open your heart.

Simple to say and so very difficult to do.

Why try?

Because it is the gateway to peace of mind and any further evolution of consciousness in this life.

The first step is best approached by looking at your childhood and seeing if you can find what traumas and fears lurk from there.

The second is starting to meditate, learning to stop thinking, trying to control the mind.

The third is trusting that it is OK to be open to life and true unconditional love.

To achieve the above would be a mega achievement, so do not feel bad if your progress is modest.

For your encouragement the reason it will change your life is that it brings greater harmony, more balance and increased peace of mind.

So however modest your progress can you think of anything else in this world that can give so much?

Just 3 steps.

 

 

 

 

Is what gets us into trouble
.

 

 

When things go well no problem we can all enjoy life.

When things change now there is the challenge.

Often this is caused by lack of resources, money.

Can one live with continual money pressures?

Difficult today where every single thing from water onwards costs money.

If the in-comings are insufficient then yes pressure builds.

Only way to handle this is to share with each other how your relationship is worth more than the problem of money.

It really exposes the strength of the relationship.

What is yours built on?

Can it handle stress over time?

Can it handle money stress?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Running all day long.

 

 

Or so it often seems.

And then something comes along and it's special.

Something took you out of your routine.

Something lifted you up or plunged you down.

Suddenly it's special propelling you into pain or pleasure.

Strong feelings.

A feeling of being more alive for better or worse.

Nothing prepares us for this.

It just arrives.

Imagine that the next time this happens you did not go so high or fall so far.

Probably a better option given that fifty percent or so of our special experiences are going to be painful.

Learning to be the observer of yourself protects from too savage an experience.

It does mean learning to control your mind though.

So that you can become that observer of what happens to you.

Start learning more about why you feel as you do.

Why you react as you do.

How you can become that observer of yourself..

 

 

What do you think you are here for?

 

 

 

 

Its powerful.

 

 

To notice what makes you run.

What does?

Why are you here?

What for?

Do you have a reason or are you just bumbling along?

Don't know why or what for?

Well if you do not know then how can anyone else?

Some things are for us alone to decide.

Your call.

Why are you here?

Take time out to understand some things about yourself.

If you do not then you can be sure nature will by bringing you to a stop in your life.

This will take the form of an illness or something else that prevents you ignoring yourself.

Running all the time to avoid yourself..

Don't believe us then look around you.

No one gets through life without this challenge.

No one.

So be smart and think about why you are here.

Are you doing what you came into this life to do?

 

 

Success is often an illusion.

Why?

Because in our world it is usually something man says or judges.

Something often at the expense of something else.

Something perceived as important at the time.

Unfortunately man is only able to see part of every story.

So let go of what others say.

Act morally and behave with ethical consideration.

Do in life what is truly important to you.

What resonates with you.

It is only at the end of our days that we can see whether it was success or not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The man who has freed his mind so that it is capable of easily entering into the methods of other minds is more likely to see truth quicker than he who is fixed in his own ways.