Being apart is seldom easy.

Learning to make it easier is the best one can do.

No worrying, no fears, no constant thinking, no going down.

Focus on the day you have and get the most out of it.

Focus on this minute now and stay in it, no drifting off.

Come to the end of the day and be glad to get there in one piece.

Spend the evenings softly doing things you never had time for when you were together.

Watch mindless crap on TV for a while, let go, no thinking.

Come to sleep time send love to your partner, day over.

Day after day live your life.

Don't waste it in useless pain.

Your reality is as it is, live it.

He said this and she said that.

Both are convinced that the other does not listen.

Both are convinced that the other is wrong.

To an outsider neither seems to be listening to the other.

Many divorces and estrangements start from such seemingly simple arguments.

Try listening without bringing your judgments into the picture.

Leave judgment out and really listen.

Get into reality don't project.

Nine times out of ten there is a chance to diffuse things but only if we listen without judgment.

Time of our lives.

Today that is, because yesterday has gone and tomorrow is just an idea.

So today it is then, the time of our lives, a time of hope.

So take actions which can lead towards what is important to you.

There is no tomorrow, do it today.

Many things in our lives are better approached with patience.

So often we do not show this.

Impatience often leads us into trouble.

When we do not manifest patience we usually set in motion frustration, anger, stress so many negative things.

When we accept what is and learn to blank our emotions things go so much better.

Notice patience leads to calmness and better peace of mind.

Learn patience because over the course of a lifetime it's a really sound investment.

Oh yes and it also slows deterioration in your immune system and that's pretty neat too.